Learn to make friends first!

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Learn to make friends first!

Post by Eos »

What brought on this post was-the sheer transactional and impersonal way that i seen noobs ask to be leeched. Of course, the days when I used to reply to them are long gone..I've long since turned off 'accept friend and party requests' in options.

Sure, it seems snobbish. But consider what I've faced when I DID take someone along:
I take someone in party (too low lvl even for support) to c1. (No pkers on that day, so things were comfy). We go into a side room and I start arrowstorming the creeps. About 15 minutes later I was being called to dinner, so I told the noob in party chat that I had to go, would return later.
Next moment- *poof* he's tped, left the party and gone. Not even a thankyou or a see u later, let alone saying hi to me the next time.

Now if this is how you're gonna behave, why the hell should I waste my time levelling you up?? I've been thinking about the high lvl friends I made when I was in the 50s.
Dragonmage (who doesn't play much now :( ) and Bloodraven, both at the time around 20 lvls higher than me.
Darksoul :twisted: :We used to pull each others leg a lot. Now he tries to give me a tap with his tuath when he sees me, and I holy whisper his *censored* in return :lol: )
Ankeetsinha-we first met when I was lvl 6 or something and he was 40-he's helped me lots of times since then, and im in his KH now.
Dontkillme or DKM-High lvl archer who I used to ask questions abt skills and scrolls.
Blood and I are still great pals now-I've closed the gap to around 10 levels now, and we don't party anymore, but we still recall the fun chatting and standing around in R3.
Why? Because I didn't just go and ask to be leeched! You have to make FRIENDs.
Understand that. This is a social sort of game...similar rules apply as do in real life with regards to other people!
You don't run upto someone on the road and beg for money..at least I don't expect A3 players to be in such dire straits.

Every noob that says hi to me-almost immediately says one of the following (my responses in braces):
'Where are u going'? (Wtf is it ur business where Im goin, u leech? I respond 'to the green door in s4' :twisted: )
'Can u leech me plzzz' (NO)
'I need 50k plzz' ('Go hunt u lousy bugger!')

I don't even bother replying. Sometimes I cut them off by saying 'No Im not gonna leech u or give u money' and then they push off. It's VERY rare that a low lvl char wanted to talk about something other than the above statements

The ones that I DO enjoy helping out-are the ones who at least tried to make conversation. Ask something about the game. Ask about quests. Where to find a scroll. Bottomline-show that you're interested in learning about the game and finding out things on your own rather than be spoonfed.

And if you think this sounds snobbish-consider that many of the people who started the game in the early stages had NOBODY to leech them or tell them anything..all had to explore the game on their own!

Make good conversation, talk about the game or other interests. It's like any other social situation. You will become popular and that helps u as well as others!
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Post by Valthunder »

Etiquettes

There are manners, rules and etiquette that your guardians and environment teach you, so when you grow up, you become successful and established in real life. MMORPG community is quite similar in certain ways, you can be known as the “nice guy” or … (whatever,) your choice.

So here are a few things that we should and shouldn’t do

1. Beg: Lot of threads on every mmorpg forums. Please do not beg for money, items or leeching. EVERY player that you see today in shinning armor had to work really hard to get there, and if they can you can.

2. Kill Steal: If someone has already engaged a mob, stay away. A half killed mob gives you quarter of the experience. And if you are high level, then there is no point showing off, you will kill those mobs in one hack alright… do that on your level map! On some mmorpgs repeatedly doing this might get you a ban.

3. Sharing the Maps: This is an online game and you are supposed to share the maps with other people. There are enough mobs for you and your group to kill, let other people play too. One problem with A3 is lack of parallel maps, so if you start abusing people for being on your map, they have nowhere to go!

4. Abusive language: “We all know the all the bad words, and understand what they mean, but the usage distinguishes a stupid from a smart.” And every player should read the A3 policy before playing.

5. Unsolicited Party: Don’t just walk up to someone, and ask him to party with you. He may be way different from your level and together you might not achieve anything. Better way is to ask.

6. Unsolicited Friendship: Do you make friendship with everyone walking on the road, or people with big sedans? Same way most of your friendship request will be rejected or deleted. Make friends by walking 10 steps together, know each other, and ask if he will be your friend?

7. Unsolicited Trade: Common way to show what you want to sell is, asking to a trade, put up the stuff, then whisper “want?” Dude, please find some time to open up a shop, if I need it I will buy, thank you.


I was compiling this for sometime, never got a chance to post. But would like to stress on the points Rex made, so instead of creating another thread... 2 voices are better than one.

Regards
Val
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Re: Learn to make friends first!

Post by Riviera »

rexdude wrote:What brought on this post was-the sheer transactional and impersonal way that i seen noobs ask to be leeched. Of course, the days when I used to reply to them are long gone..I've long since turned off 'accept friend and party requests' in options.

Sure, it seems snobbish. But consider what I've faced when I DID take someone along:
I take someone in party (too low lvl even for support) to c1. (No pkers on that day, so things were comfy). We go into a side room and I start arrowstorming the creeps. About 15 minutes later I was being called to dinner, so I told the noob in party chat that I had to go, would return later.
Next moment- *poof* he's tped, left the party and gone. Not even a thankyou or a see u later, let alone saying hi to me the next time.

Now if this is how you're gonna behave, why the hell should I waste my time levelling you up?? I've been thinking about the high lvl friends I made when I was in the 50s.
Dragonmage (who doesn't play much now :( ) and Bloodraven, both at the time around 20 lvls higher than me.
Darksoul :twisted: :We used to pull each others leg a lot. Now he tries to give me a tap with his tuath when he sees me, and I holy whisper his *censored* in return :lol: )
Ankeetsinha-we first met when I was lvl 6 or something and he was 40-he's helped me lots of times since then, and im in his KH now.
Dontkillme or DKM-High lvl archer who I used to ask questions abt skills and scrolls.
Blood and I are still great pals now-I've closed the gap to around 10 levels now, and we don't party anymore, but we still recall the fun chatting and standing around in R3.
Why? Because I didn't just go and ask to be leeched! You have to make FRIENDs.
Understand that. This is a social sort of game...similar rules apply as do in real life with regards to other people!
You don't run upto someone on the road and beg for money..at least I don't expect A3 players to be in such dire straits.

Every noob that says hi to me-almost immediately says one of the following (my responses in braces):
'Where are u going'? (Wtf is it ur business where Im goin, u leech? I respond 'to the green door in s4' :twisted: )
'Can u leech me plzzz' (NO)
'I need 50k plzz' ('Go hunt u lousy bugger!')

I don't even bother replying. Sometimes I cut them off by saying 'No Im not gonna leech u or give u money' and then they push off. It's VERY rare that a low lvl char wanted to talk about something other than the above statements

The ones that I DO enjoy helping out-are the ones who at least tried to make conversation. Ask something about the game. Ask about quests. Where to find a scroll. Bottomline-show that you're interested in learning about the game and finding out things on your own rather than be spoonfed.

And if you think this sounds snobbish-consider that many of the people who started the game in the early stages had NOBODY to leech them or tell them anything..all had to explore the game on their own!

Make good conversation, talk about the game or other interests. It's like any other social situation. You will become popular and that helps u as well as others!
now u know why i got soo bugged??

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Post by Deathgod »

my sentiments exactly.. now tht i have worn the mounted ygg.. everyone thinks i am some higl lvl char and asks for party or level and some even ask for *gasp* support .. lol.. good post there.. both of guys.. but hey how many ever visit the forum.. only the high lvl player or mid lvl players...

sometimes i feel that we are like grandmas just complaining.. lol.. no offence
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Re: Learn to make friends first!

Post by Eos »

arthasrein wrote:
now u know why i got soo bugged??
Yup, gotta agree. :(
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Post by Riviera »

now join me in the elimination of leeching.... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

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Post by venusaur3 »

Arthas! The biggest Farter is Back!

Beware Noobs!
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Post by Riviera »

phhrbrt...!! thought i was freed from the stench...but its back again...

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Post by dredisback »

HE AIN'T ARTHASS, HE'S

FART*censored*

:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
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Post by Machs »

abey harami ke pille u see urself first
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