"I was stuck at this tentacle mission in half-Life for two days. On the third day I asked my brother to un-install the stupid game", saying this she starts giggling while looking at me in a sheepish way and says, "I know it's a great game man, but that's a tough mission, which makes it stupid" and starts laughing again. If it had happened to a boy (well it must have happened to a thousand), he would have gone to the internet, would have downloaded the walkthrough and wouldn't have slept until he had finished the game. But, if it was a boy!! So why don't girls do the same. "Doing that would be cheating", says Amisha with a grim look, "What's the use of doing that… naah even if that makes me finish the game in half the time, I wouldn't do it. That's not winning". Seriously I couldn't understand this point. It’s all in the game I say, but even after half an hour I couldn't convince her.
Trust me when I say that you guys enjoy the fact that girls don't play games". This statement got me thinking that somehow there was some truth in what she said. We guys always like to say that girls are dumb when it comes to computers and somehow we enjoy saying that, don't we? Imagine if they start ruling us in this field and we face a major competition in gaming from girls. It will definitely become an ego issue for a major fraction of us. "I don't go to gaming parlours anymore, know why? Cause no one plays against me. I’m a hard opponent and I mostly win and the ones who get defeated by me feel ashamed. It's a different thing to be defeated by a boy for the. It's the male ego that hinders them. So now I play single player games". She is right, wonder how a boy would feel if he loses to a girl in front of dozen bystanders. "Well I’m ready to lose to you", I said and we went to a gaming café and played Counter Strike, and needless to say ‘my team lost to hers’.
I loved it muhahahaha, now i understand why i was hated
We need to understand that it’s we guys only who are trying to undermine the growth of girls in games by telling them that they are not good enough and are dumb at computers. A fear of being left with no belonging and no area of superiority lies in our unconsciousness. Girls are to triumph this field of games one day, and I have a feeling that it’s coming sooner then we expect. Either we can welcome them, or we can be our typical male images with ego projecting at our faces. We have already lost education to girls and now we are losing jobs to them and very soon we are going to lose our favourite area of command and fun to them. It’s our choice if we want to lose it to them or offer a truce and welcome them in this field to be our better halves. Whatever may be the case its best we compete amicably, rather than displaying our individual egos…coz at the end of it all ‘let the best man win’ , oops… I’d go ahead and say the ‘let the best female win’.

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